The Truth About Andy’s Dad In ‘Toy Story’ Will Make You Depressed

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Fine, here’s what happened to Andy’s dad.

A few months ago, I argued the theory that Andy’s mother is actually Emily, the girl who originally owned Jesse in Toy Story 2. The post quickly went viral, as many people began debating whether or not this is true, intentional, etc.

Since then, literally hundreds (if not thousands) of people have been asking me about Andy’s dad, and I’ve never wanted to address the issue for a few key reasons:

  1. It’s depressing.
  2. It’s depressing.
  3. It’s depressing.

You see, I love talking about theories like Andy’s mom and how all of the Pixar movies are connected because that’s tons of fun to think about. Andy’s dad? That’s just…well, you get it.

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But I can see that a lot of you want to know anyway, and it’s really not that complicated. In fact, this is one of the few theories about Toy Story that I can confidently say is totally intentional.

The original theory was first posited by Jess Nevins, an incredibly talented writer who published his take on “Mr. Davis” back in 2010. I’ll elaborate on his theory and build upon it with my own insights.

Nevins claimed that Andy’s parents are going through a divorce during the events of the first Toy Story. Now, many of you probably saw that coming (it’s pretty obvious, after all), but it’s important to point out that this is not an amicable divorce. Andy’s dad left the family, and there’s plenty of evidence to confirm this.

Keep in mind that Andy’s dad is never mentioned or seen throughout the Toy Story movies. If it wasn’t for the rudiments of biology and procreation, then we could just assume that the guy doesn’t even exist. But he does, and all signs point to him walking out on his wife and kids.

The Obvious Clues

He may have left right before the first Toy Story started or months before, but one thing is certain: Andy’s dad did not die. If he had died, then why are there no pictures of him on the wall in the Davis house?

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As you can see from this shot of Toy Story, Andy’s dad is not depicted in these family photos. If he had died, you’d think they would at least keep a picture of him up for the sake of honoring his memory.

Of course, you can argue that he died a long time ago, and the family has forgotten about him already. But if that’s the case, then how do you explain the fact that Molly (Andy’s younger sister) is a baby? He would’ve had to have died recently in order for her existence to be possible.

It makes more sense to assume that his pictures were taken down, and it would take something despicable on his part for that to happen.

To strengthen that point, Andy’s mom is spotted without a wedding ring at Andy’s birthday party in the first film. If Mr. Davis had died recently, then she would probably still be wearing it.

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Now, I’ll admit that if you really want to, you can come up with a lot of diverting theories to explain all of this by saying Molly was conceived by some other man and that could be why the parents divorced. You could argue that the kids are adopted, or Andy’s mom just “gets around.”

But don’t you think the creators of Toy Story intended for this to be clear? In this case, the simple explanation is the more likely.

After all, the family is moving from a bigger house to a noticeably smaller one in Toy Story, which signals that Andy’s mom is having financial trouble. If she and Mr. Davis were getting a divorce, then he would at least be paying child support, but the family still has to make some sacrifices.

Oh, and the family gets a puppy. That’s pretty much the king of single mother clichés.

Childish Competition

The “deadbeat dad” theory also explains why Andy is so deeply connected with his toys, especially the masculine figureheads depicted by Woody and Buzz (who are both authoritative models as a “sheriff” and a “space ranger”).

What seems like a petty rivalry between two toys vying for Andy’s affection is really an allegory that Andy is playing out in his mind. In the end, their reconciliation and eventual friendship is symbolic of Andy coming to terms with only having his mother around.

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Woody is the “old” father figure that represents where Andy really comes from, while Buzz is the “new” future he has to get used to. It’s no wonder Andy is going through emotional whiplash as he has to face the absence of his father and having to move to a totally new house within such a limited amount of time.

Now, if you’re a fan of my theory of Pixar movies and the Pixar Detective novel, then a fun way to interpret this is by noting how Woody and Buzz are essentially “programmed” to make Andy happy.

They may notice that he is torn by his old life and the new one that is being forced upon him, prompting Woody to obsess over making sure Andy still has a connection to his old life, while Buzz is the “oblivious” future that just happens upon Andy without him knowing it.

A Common Theme

Ultimately, this explains why Andy is so deeply immersed with his toys, and it’s a theme that Disney is no stranger to. In many Disney and Pixar films, the main characters are brought up without one or both parents.

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Movies like this include Up (Russell’s father left him), Tangled (Rapunzel is raised by an evil fake-mother and Flynn is an orphan), Frozen (both parents pass away), A Bug’s Life (Dot and Atta only have their mother), The Princess and the Frog (her father dies early on), Aladdin (Jasmine’s mother is never mentioned and Aladdin’s father is estranged until the third film) and I could go on and on.

The simple explanation for this is that many people suffer from broken homes during their formative years, and it’s been reflected in both literature and moviemaking for as long as they’ve been around. It should be no surprise that a fun film like Toy Story has an undercurrent of sadness and (dare I say it) reality lingering in the background.

Also, it’s been a tradition for movies and even TV to stray from having both parents onscreen in order to prevent alienating single parents who take their kids to go see movies. Ouch, right in the heart.

What the Creators Have to Say About It

Now, if you ask the director of Toy Story, Lee Unkrich, directly, then he’ll give you a mysteriously vague answer. In her article, Toy Story 3 and the Triumph of a Single Mother,” writer Mary Pols spoke with Unkrich himself and gained his thoughts on the matter:

“It’s an oft asked question, but there is no concrete answer, We don’t mean to be mysterious about it; it’s just never been relevant to the story.”

It’s just always been that way. The decision was made really early on in ‘Toy Story’ to have Andy’s dad not be around. We’ve never addressed it directly, nor have we given any explanation for where he is or why he’s absent.”

As for Unkrich himself (pictured below), his parents divorced when he was 10 years old, and he reportedly grew up with just his mother for some time.

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On Quora, Craig Good (one of Toy Story‘s animators) claims that the decision to exclude Andy’s dad was made because rendering humans was very difficult and expensive at the time, and he wouldn’t be relevant to the story anyway.

But that definitely doesn’t mean they didn’t pepper in a few clues that hint at Andy’s father being a deadbeat. That most easily explains why he truly isn’t necessary for the Toy Story movies, especially to the characters who moved on without him.

Except for Buzz Lightyear, of course. Even he got a dad in Toy Story 2…

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So here it is in a nutshell. Andy’s father most likely walked out on the family, which led to Andy’s mother deciding to relocate to a smaller house to save money and (hopefully) move on from the painful memory. She has removed any pictures she has of him, along with her wedding ring, and the father is never mentioned or seen, even in Andy’s graduation photos.

It’s sad and kind of depressing, but inevitably pointless to the story, which is really about a boy and his toys that somehow come to life and compete for his love and imagination.

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259 thoughts on “The Truth About Andy’s Dad In ‘Toy Story’ Will Make You Depressed

  1. I still think he died. With andy being so young when it starts I could see why there would be no pictures. However in toy story 3 i just happened upon something intresting. In the beginning when it is showing the recording for mollys birthday party. His mother says “ohh Charlie” very quietly. The way she says it is in a dreamy wishful way. This leads me to believe that his dad died. Unless they had a very peaceful divorce i doubt she would have said that name like that.

    • She said “Oh, charming”

    • Is it just me or does anybody think that the person who abondened lotso was andys mum because lotso says “emily doesn’t love us anymore” and when it should you a picture of her reading a book with he new lotso she has blonde hair

  2. I just asked my 6 year old who Andy’s dad is, he replied he hasn’t got one, he’s got buzz and woody instead!

  3. I don’t get how that is depressing.

  4. I don’t know what I think it is a weird topic but the evidence that you have giving sums up that he left the family

  5. Andy’s dad left the family. It IS kinda depressing when you think about it. Weirdly enough, I don’t really think about it. Oh, it’s sad, but Andy’s (more or less) happy with his new life. He’s moving on. End of story.
    But it’s not the end.
    Not yet.

    • I don’t think you grasp the actual meaning of the word ‘depressing’, let alone the absurd emphasis of a “triple” depressing, but you do get a point there. These days, a father leaving his family is KIND OF sad, yes. Depressing would have been him suffer from a long deteorating disease, as it does happen in real life. Or committing suicide due to financial trouble, as it also does happen in real life, among other truly depressing ways of breaking a family apart, and I’m not even bringing violence up. But apparently that very father left happy children to a devoted mother, which is KIND OF sad, as you put it yourself.
      “Depressing, depressing, depressing”? For crying out loud.

      • I think you both got the point across very well. So let me summarize it: yes, Andy’s dad left the family, but it happens a lot in real life. It’s not really depressing compared to having a deadly disease or something like that. It’s more like, “oh he left the family. so sad”, and then forgetting about it. In one ear and out the other. I think that’s what you guys were saying. You’re welcome!

  6. FWIW, after my mother passed away (when I was 7), my dad couldn’t bear to have photos of her on display. It was too painful. So the absence of the father’s image is not significant

  7. What about if when at the end of toy story 3 when Andy waves goodbye to his toys, is that symbolic in any way? I’ve been thinking: what if when Andy (as for mentioned) waves goodbye and bonnie uses woody to wave goodbye, what if that’s what he did to his dad when he left, and then the speech that he gives to bonnie about woody was a sort of hint that he had woody with him because he was that last gift his father gave to him. I don’t know I’m probably just over thinking it but still.

    • With all due respect, you are indeed overthinking it. In Toy Story 2, we find out Woody was a big hit in the late 60s, so most likely he was one of Andy’s parents’ toy. You don’t hold up to a toy for that long to present it to your child when you’re LEAVING THEM only. Also, in the very scene you mentioned, Andy also says: “[Woody] has been my buddy ever since I can remember”, so Woody was probably passed onto Andy around the time when Andy was a baby. Also, according to Mr. Potato Head in Toy Story (1), “Woody has been [Andy’s] favorite toy since kindergarten”.

  8. There’s no way Andys mum can be Emily, the hat that is the biggest evidence may be the same but if you watch toy story 2 when she drops jessie off at the donation point she puts all the cowboy parafinalia in the box with jessie the lunch box, hat, boots etc and I think Disney being Disney they would have never missed out on a moment of reconciliation between Emily and jessie it would have been to good to not have used.

  9. Andy’s father raped Andy Mather without marriage?

    • Since when is marriage needed to rape someone?

  10. Any Disney fan knows Walt Disney’s mom died after his first movie, snow white, then on out the characters all had dead mom’s and then variations of dead parents. My parents were married 26 years when my dad died and there are no pics up of him anywhere in my mom’s house. So just based off not having pics, doesn’t mean they divorced. Up is the only one I can think of that has divorced parents and that is relatively new compared to toy story

  11. Aladdin (Jasmine’s mother is never mentioned and Aladdin’s father is estranged until the third film)

    • Aladdins dad shows up in the king of theives. I think there’s 3 movies.

  12. Pixar and Jon are awesome!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

  13. I apologize. My STUPID brother used my code name to post that.
    Apologies. Even though he’s right.

    • There’s no need to apologize. He’s totally right. Jon is awesome. And I would die without Pixar.
      Also, tell your brother to lighten up on the exclamation marks.

  14. Jasmine’s mother is indeed mentioned in the movie. Quote from the Sultan, “…it’s a pity. Her never wasn’t nearly so picky…”

  15. The only flaw I can think of is that the director also said that Woody was a toy Andy’s father gave him and in Toy Story 2 Andy’s mom tells the person who kidnapped Woody that he is not for sale and is an old Family Toy.Not that this disproves the theory or anything but I’m just wondering why Andy’s mom would not want to get rid of Woody.

    • “I’m just wondering why Andy’s mom would not want to get rid of Woody.”
      Is the fact that Woody is her son’s FAVORITE TOY not enough for you?

      • But the fact that she was so determined not to sell Woody when the person kept offering more and more to her is what makes me wonder

        • Well, a mother’s child’s happiness should be priceless to her. Still not fishy to me.

          • Ok but what about the fact that Andy wanted to take Woody to college even though most people going to college wouldn’t take toys with them.That indicates that Woody was important to Andy. If you disagree with that I don’t mind but I’m just saying.

            • I think you’re right. I have always found stupid that an 18-year-old man would care to take a cowboy dolly to college. Just plain stupid. It’s like a lame excuse for the movie to begin with lol

              • It’s dweeby, sure, but not unheard of. One of my dormmates carried his stuffed Hobbes tiger with him everywhere.

                • Even though he could have just wanted to take Woody to college just because he felt like it, in the film there is no evidence that he was that kind of person. He told Molly that they were junk and even though he was going to keep them in the attic he easily changed his mind after he read that note that Woody wrote him. The only toy he was even hesitant about giving to Bonnie was Woody, and there was never really a reason given to us why he was hesitant.

                  • Nah, I have always understood his comment as his toys being junk as an excuse not to sell them when his mother came up with the idea, the same way as I understand him as being protective towards them when Molly asked “Why do you still have these old toys?”, for his only response was “Get out of my room.” Btw, I’m watching Toy Story 2 right now haha love it love it love it. “How do you spell FBI?”

                • Haha that’s so cute. I thought I was the only one who in their 20s still has their teddy around at bedtime. Ok, you convinced me 🙂

  16. Jon, why on earth did you say this article is depressing?
    I mean, I know that Andy’s dad walking out on the family isn’t really a good thing, but calling it downright depressing is a little much. Sad to say, but people walking out of the family is a slightly common thing nowadays. So it’s not really depressing unless it happens to you.
    “Depressing, depressing, depressing”? For crying out loud.

  17. I was always under the impression that they were moving to a bigger house, or at least one with more rooms. Molly and Andy are sharing a room in the first movie, and in the second/third, they each have their own. That indicates that they moved because of Molly’s presence, no?

  18. I always thought Andy and Molly were adopted…

  19. “In a nutshell, Andy’s dad most likely left the family”.
    Damon you, Pixar! Why do you have to be so realistic?

  20. Families growing up with only their mother as the constant parent are actually pretty common. Art imitates life, no?

  21. This may sound stupid but as i read this i thought to myself for about two seconds could Andy be Russell’s father because his mother is obviously Asian and Russell doesn’t look very Asian and there’s the fact that in Toy Story 4 Andy is supposedly a workaholic so maybe he got out of it but he could always relapse and maybe his mother got sick of him never having time for them and made him leave then told Russell that his dad would be gone for a while until he was old enough to understand. I don’t know if this makes any sense because I don’t think the timeline wouldn’t allow this. Maybe out of anger at his dad for leaving he got rid of the toy. His mother seeing his distress had him join the scouts so he could have some sort of father figure in his life since she knew she couldn’t fill in that spot. Just a thought, probably a far fetched one but still a thought.

  22. forgot to mention the fact that we know just about nothing about Russell’s family aside from he has a single mother and no father.

    • F.Y.I. Kaneki it’s the other way around no MOTHER and a FATHER but Phylis the woman who gets mentioned when Russell losses the tent and makes Carl promise not to lose Kevin would she be a stepmom?

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